LOVE AND OTHER THINGS

Finally Christmas has come and gone, We all saw a reason to drink more alcohol  and eat more than usual. I for one had too many to drink and eat that i thought i was gonna explode...But hey am still here.

Anyways a friend of mine came to me with her ''big'' problem..I call it LOVE AND OTHER THINGS.

How do you cope with the downsides of people you love. How best to deal or approach issues concerning your partner or friends.

In as much as i have a blunt tongue, I feel for people ohhh, So telling them they have this problem or that problem is hard for me and it doesn't mean am a bad friend.

OK my friend told me her boyfriend has Halitosis , Me i call am MO(mouth odour)  In case you don 't know what it means. Anyways she doesn't know how to deal with it or tell him.

While others were dishing out advice like tell him, Buy him mouth wash and toothpaste(like he didn't have or wasn't using one), Me as a ''good friend'' i tell am say, simply book an appointment with a dentist for herself, Get her BF to go with her, When she's inside she should simply tell the dentist what the problem is and get the dentist to have a look at the BF's mouth, All in the name of promo...2 for the price of 1....LMAO

Went out on a date with a guy who had BO(body odour), Omo when i perceived the 1st ''scent'' i had to take off ohh, Me that loves to cuddle, Should now do bear with me....Well yours truly sent the guy a set of body wash,shaving cream, deodorant and perfume the next day...Am such an Angel..*winks*....

Anyways my friend has to take heart for not looking and perceiving well before dating....

Still on other matters, Thanks to everyone who reads my Blog. I feel good when i check my overview and see that at least 35/30 people check my Blog every day and the emails i get as well....yah me..*dancing*

I wish you guys a Happy New Year....

BAD DATES

The whole process of chasing a woman has gone sour. This dating game has deteriorated so bad, that i wonder if anything can be done to salvage what's left.

With all the fancy Restaurants, Shopping malls, Games Center, Cinema etc, You would think some guys will be able to up there game, but for where, Some still carry this i don't care attitude around.

Back in the days guys really made an effort to purse a girl, Take her somewhere nice, Have decent conversations, Laugh with manners, Open the door when entering and leaving etc....

Then some of us girls didn't appreciate this things because we didn't know any better, Thinking its a normal thing any guy should do.

When you have been on many dates then you realize the difference in good and bad dates.

I went on a date recently and that's were all this is coming from. The guy saw it fit to take me to a pub, OK me i no complain, I tell myself say take am in good fate.

The 1st thing i noticed was him chewing gum, He didn't try to even hide it..He was chewing away like it was normal, I told myself say u don suffer, But shey the date is just starting let me give the guy a break..

Men the conversation was bloody zero, Made me drink beer(obviously that's like the only drink they sell in a  pub and he didn't think maybe i don't drink beer), People laughing out loud everywhere(shey na pub).....It was a nightmare.

Unfortunately it gets to a point were you forget about being polite and you just wanna get out of there. Had to do that, wasn't sure why i had to sit through something so painful if the guy couldn't be bother to make an effort.

Guys seriously its not that hard to make an effort to impress a girl you like na haba......Somewhere quite will definitely help, So conversation can take place, Always know what she likes 1st before taking her on a date, Try and make sure you have fresh breath that way you won't have to chew gum..lol

In fact i think am going to have to take a guy on a date and show him how i think it should be done....

Merry Christmas all.....XXX

DD.