MEN AND CHEATING

Why do MEN Cheat??????
Are we ever going to have the answer to that question..like seriously.
Fact 90% of all the men in this world cheat..(If you like disagree shey its my blog)
I know young guys who just got married, barely 6moths into the marriage, they are cheating already, looking for babes up and down like they don't get sex from there pretty wives.
She can cook, clean, dress well, do bedroom work well, etc that's why you married her na...So why cheat?.
They say its a man's nature to cheat...Who said so? Me i like to know ooooo
There's this guy i dated way back, in ma eyes he was Mr nice guy, treated me properly, infact we had a good relationship..respected each others privacy and all...One sweet day, i needed to make a call with his phone, after making the call, instead of me madam aproko to drop phone, I went to text message and decided to feed my eyes, believe me ehh my eyes chop wella....I fainted half way while reading.
He didnt just have one babe ooo, he had like 7 babes, one even called him uncle and said i enjoyed what we did last night.
After plenty drip sha, i tell am say abeg ehhhh i no want again...But the funny thing was his friends all came to talk and beg on his behalf and one said....He didn't cheat in your face, He had a lot of respect for you, When ever you visit, We know madam is coming so he makes sure all his other babes are aware that his serious babe is coming, so none of them calls or comes around by mistake...His friend asked me, Have u seen him with any other babe, Is he always on the phone when ever your around, Has he ever behaved funny when you guys are in public, All my answer was no.
Long story short, i went back to him, we dated for awhile before parting ways finally.
Now i ask myself because a guys cheats behind my back, does that make cheating ok
Should that be enough reason to one to hang on to a relationship.
Bliss asked P.JAY this question once and she said no...If a guy cheats on me, i will leave him and surprisingly i agree with her.
But if you are married, and you find out your husband is cheating on you,  do you pack your load back home or divorce him or stay put?
I guess we will never know why men cheat....
If my husband cheats on me....sorry ooo but me i won't leave him ohh just teach him a lesson he wont forget in a hurry.....

IS THERE A MR/MISS RIGHT

Back in the days relationships made a lot of sense, people were with each other because they had a connection, It felt right and most guys did their best to fight for the girl and the relationship(P.JAY knows what am talking about).
There was something called TOASTING/CHASING na haba...What happened to that?..*Question to guys*
I had a guy who pursed me then from 100l to 400l kai, Now a guy talks to you today, You form small, The guy don squeeze face waka saying after all babes full everywhere...
A woman is allowed to form na, and not give in instantly *Wish i could take my own advice*
Now we have all made a mockery of relationships..*sad face*
Am still an old fashion girl ooooo, I believe a man should toast, chase, woo a woman, buy her little gifts, open the door for her, take her for a drink then drop her off with a peck Gbam..
Don't say see this one she's dreaming...am not.
I had a guy like that, but what did i do, I let him go thinking he was a mumu and bad guys were the main thing..
But now, a guy talks to a girl, fear no go let her form plenty or at all sef all in the name of "i don't want to lose him"
So is there a thing like his my Mr right or she's my Miss right.
People are together this days for different reasons, People get married for different reasons.
A guy told me he cant marry me if i don't have a job....See me see Wahala.
Shouldn't he be thinking of marrying me because he thinks am his missing rib ehhhhhhh.
She takes my breath away, He makes me smile, I cant live without him/her......Are all this crap made up or real..Are they fantasies we created from watching Snow White, Beauty and the Beast, Cinderella etc while growing up.
Do we marry someone because we have been with them for 2years or 5years, because they know you, and you tell yourself love will grow with time, how about hatred, that grows too.
Don't you think people cheat because they are not crazily in love with their partners....*That's another topic*
Call me crazy, a dreamer, foolish but i believe in the right person.
I need to know that a man is my Mr right and he fits me perfectly..That's what i call DESTINY.

RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE

Ok this is one serious issue that i and my friend discuss a lot, not because we are desperate but because its what ladies talk about.
Do you think as an African woman you should be married at a certain age?
At what age do you need to start getting worried?
This are topics i and ma friend argue about.
In ma opinion i say i wont want to be 30 and still be very single. (No offense to women over 30s)
Getting a good relationship at my age is a problem, i don't see how crossing 30 is gonna help.
Trying to get pregnant is another issue, menopause comes early this days for women(thanks to all d fatty food,booze and our 9ja weather).
But P.JAY doesn't seem to agree..To her 30 shouldn't be a dead line for me or anyone, when you can have a career, build yourself, etc
What do you lots think?
Do you think a woman in her 30's who has a good job, good pay, in fact everything going well for her ,has a higher chance of landing a husband or a woman in her mid 20's?
When should a woman start getting worried about marriage?
Should a woman be worried at all about marriage.


DD.