GOD'S BLESSINGS

I came across this video on You Tube, So far i have to admit that God is real and he definitely has blessed this boy.
I watched this video or better still i have watched this video more than 30 times and i still have the same feeling i felt having watched it the 1st time.
It just goes straight to my heart and i feel pain, joy, and happiness to have seen this video.

I hope you guys feel what i felt.

Don't have much to write about this week as i have become boring and less social.

Have a good weekend.

WILL YOU MARRY ME?????????????????????????????????

Hey guys, hope you had a good week. I didn't work wise, but its the freaky weekend and am gonna have me some fun..*singing R.Kelly*

Anyway am gonna talk about Proposals. ''The Will You Marry Me Business''. I have seen dramatic Proposals, Over the top Proposals, Quiet Proposals, Bad Proposals etc....

I have seen the yes i will marry you and the NO, Shaking of the head and the running away.
One question a friend asked is how do people get it wrong and some just get it so right. The video i posted up is one of my favorites.

I will tell you how people get it wrong and right from my own view.  

1st you need to be sure all the signs are there that she wants to get married to you, Then you need to know your girlfriend or partner well. I mean damn well. Is she a drama queen, Does she like/love attention, Is she the quiet one, would she rather stay at home and watch a movie than go out, Does she love food, Does she eat too fast and also large chunks at a time (lol) etc..( so she doesn't get to swallow the ring).
As a man when you take your time and study your woman, then you get an ideal of what kinda Proposal she deserves.
Don't say because everyone is going public, You too will....She will definitely disgrace you.
Make sure you understand your partner.

Me, I love my food...So if my man goes and hide the ring inside my meal, I definitely will eat that ring.
Me, I love drama, My man decides to propose to me at home, HA big problem for him ohhh...*lipsealed*
He had better be creative, have a sense of adventure and a soul full of Romance.#futurehubbytakenote

If you decide to go for a dramatic Proposal, Men please try and be Romantic, I beg you. Add a twist, magic,romance etc...Don't pack full crowd to one side and ask her to marry you just like that..We ladies plan to get just 'one' magical Proposal in life.. So make it a good one.

The ring might not be some mighty rock, or the wedding won't be the wedding of the Year, but the Proposal should be your way of telling her how much she means to you and how much you want to spend the rest of your life with her through thick and thin, through better or worse and a story to tell your kids and give them something to look forward to when the grow older and need inspiration.

Have a good weekend guys and thanks to everyone who reads my Blog. There's joy in knowing people read what i write.

Ps. Forgive any blunder in my writing.Had a late night.

THE ROAD TO RELATIONSHIPS

Hey, sorry i have not written in awhile, been busy and less inspiration this days. But lately something got me thinking. This guy who is liking me, was going on about love, blah blah.....and i told him something that he thought was weird. I asked him what church he attends (lol ) and where he was from.....He was shocked...I can't blame him anyways...

I told him relationships have gone beyond i love you, you have money etc. I may be wrong ohhh........But i think there are a lot of things to consider before going into a relationship.....

Anyways this is my own opinion. I rather date a guy who attends the same church as me, to save us a lot time and stress.....Am a catholic and marrying a none catholic na war...and putting a man through that kinda stress isn't fun..But if his ready, wahala no dey.

I have to date someone who is from my state or two states close to mine. I have a cousin who is from delta and went to the north to pick wife...men my uncle who is a chief said he ain't going anywhere ohhhhh.....He can't carry other chiefs from his place,load them up in a bus or car and start travelling for 10hours all in the name of marriage....lol......His son ended up breaking up with the girl...I won't lie, me i felt where my uncle was coming from.

I won't go and locate one guy that is from one far place then make his family travel 7hrs to come and marry me, then do another 7hrs back home...No na.....I rather stay close to home jor

I just feel relationships have gone past you make me laugh and i love you......I just feel we need to start putting other things into consideration, so that our future is a little stress free.

I don't see why two people should go ahead and marry when their parents are not in support of it.
I don't see why i should go ahead and marry a guy, when his mother clearly hates or dislikes me.

I can go on and on, but hey am only saying what i know..

People really shouldn't rush into relationships or marriage..If there are any issues, try and sort them 1st before going a step further...If your boyfriends mother doesn't like you from the beginning, and you try to make an effort to make her like you, and it doesn't work..Abeg move on before its too late....

Anyways everybody and their own.....Have a good weekend...