Ok this is one serious issue that i and my friend discuss a lot, not because we are desperate but because its what ladies talk about.
Do you think as an African woman you should be married at a certain age?
At what age do you need to start getting worried?
This are topics i and ma friend argue about.
In ma opinion i say i wont want to be 30 and still be very single. (No offense to women over 30s)
Getting a good relationship at my age is a problem, i don't see how crossing 30 is gonna help.
Trying to get pregnant is another issue, menopause comes early this days for women(thanks to all d fatty food,booze and our 9ja weather).
But P.JAY doesn't seem to agree..To her 30 shouldn't be a dead line for me or anyone, when you can have a career, build yourself, etc
What do you lots think?
Do you think a woman in her 30's who has a good job, good pay, in fact everything going well for her ,has a higher chance of landing a husband or a woman in her mid 20's?
When should a woman start getting worried about marriage?
Should a woman be worried at all about marriage.
DD.
I think P-Jay is right ... It's not written anywhere that 30 is the cut off mark....and life is per head, there's no competition. It's not about how physically old you are, it's about how mature and ready for marriage you are
ReplyDeleteAnd please there are women in their 40s-50s who landed good men.... It depends on what you want
So Queen Diva the question is what do you want? Or are you willing to settle for just anyone who proposes marriage all because you dread being single at 30?
I agree with Jennifer, there is no particular age for marriage, but the general conception is the chances of "landing a good man" is very high when you are in your twenties. I support the mid-twenties, the earlier the better as long as the parties involved are mature to handle it.
ReplyDeleteI know there is no particular age and its good to establish yourself but me i would definitely want to be married in my 20's
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