Sunday 2 June 2013

ENJOY BEING SINGLE

Hey guys, Happy New Month. Work has been crazy and my hormones have been all over the place as well, hence the not writing since. Thanks for all the emails.

''Enjoy Being Single'' is meant for Single Ladies only. As we all know, every other Saturday, girls are getting married and some are not and many girls are going crazy and some are losing it big time. Me i don't blame them sometimes but then again we ladies need to chill.

 I have done my own research and i realize most girls are ashamed to say they are single. OK that i can understand (lol) but seriously !!!!!!!!!!
We need to be OK with the fact that we are single, thereby preparing our mind and soul for being in a relationship/marriage..
A lot of us will rush and marry the next available man that comes knocking and end up marrying mad men, junkies, etc because we don't want to be seen as single,

When some of my ex got married, i was sad and taught i had missed out on something, but then trust men to make you realize otherwise. They are all coming after me, still preaching love and saying what a mistake they made.. Hell No Bro!!! you didn't make a mistake, you made the right choice and am damn happy am not the choice.(future hubby take note ohh...don't disgrace yourself by going back to try and sleep with your ex)

I am single and am not gonna feel bad about it. Its high time we ladies learn to enjoy what ever position we find ourselves. (make my mama hear me 1st)
Quit feeling sorry for yourselves and make the best of your single-hood. Enjoy hanging out with your girls, use some of that energy into working your ass off and making some money, travel and see what you can.
Study your friends who are married, read books, discover yourself, enjoy life and what it has to offer.
Enjo
y being single, enjoy being who you are right now, enjoy seeing and experiencing the world on your own.

When you get married, you will loose you as a person and become know as someone's wife.People will now judge you based on Mrs this did that and Mrs this didn't do that.
I heard this saying once ''Single ladies want to get in and married women want to get out and be single''

We will all get married at some point, but before that day comes enjoy being single. Don't let anyone make you feel sorry for being single, don't give yourself HBP because you thinking.

Being single shouldn't be an opportunity to sleep with all the men in the world oh and don't get overly comfortable being single.....I will deny you straight oh, i no send you that one.

Have a good week ahead.







1 comment:

  1. Hahahahaaa.......Missed reading your write ups

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