Thursday 30 August 2012

MEN AND CHEATING

Why do MEN Cheat??????
Are we ever going to have the answer to that question..like seriously.
Fact 90% of all the men in this world cheat..(If you like disagree shey its my blog)
I know young guys who just got married, barely 6moths into the marriage, they are cheating already, looking for babes up and down like they don't get sex from there pretty wives.
She can cook, clean, dress well, do bedroom work well, etc that's why you married her na...So why cheat?.
They say its a man's nature to cheat...Who said so? Me i like to know ooooo
There's this guy i dated way back, in ma eyes he was Mr nice guy, treated me properly, infact we had a good relationship..respected each others privacy and all...One sweet day, i needed to make a call with his phone, after making the call, instead of me madam aproko to drop phone, I went to text message and decided to feed my eyes, believe me ehh my eyes chop wella....I fainted half way while reading.
He didnt just have one babe ooo, he had like 7 babes, one even called him uncle and said i enjoyed what we did last night.
After plenty drip sha, i tell am say abeg ehhhh i no want again...But the funny thing was his friends all came to talk and beg on his behalf and one said....He didn't cheat in your face, He had a lot of respect for you, When ever you visit, We know madam is coming so he makes sure all his other babes are aware that his serious babe is coming, so none of them calls or comes around by mistake...His friend asked me, Have u seen him with any other babe, Is he always on the phone when ever your around, Has he ever behaved funny when you guys are in public, All my answer was no.
Long story short, i went back to him, we dated for awhile before parting ways finally.
Now i ask myself because a guys cheats behind my back, does that make cheating ok
Should that be enough reason to one to hang on to a relationship.
Bliss asked P.JAY this question once and she said no...If a guy cheats on me, i will leave him and surprisingly i agree with her.
But if you are married, and you find out your husband is cheating on you,  do you pack your load back home or divorce him or stay put?
I guess we will never know why men cheat....
If my husband cheats on me....sorry ooo but me i won't leave him ohh just teach him a lesson he wont forget in a hurry.....








9 comments:

  1. Men cheat bcos dey r stingy by nature.nd its onli a God fearin man wit discipline nd maturity dat cn free himsef 4rm dat attitude.

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  2. The madam that said she would leave him, she would get a big shocker when one sharp babe moves inside immediately, not that am supporting cheating but we should all be wise and sharp.

    Warri Girl

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  3. DD, me I disagree with u. Na woman cheat pass. How a woman go dey save guys number with d following name, mugu 1 2 mugu 20? Tell me DD, how many uncle women get self? Obi my uncle, James my uncle, Emma my uncle? Haba!!! See make I tell u DD, we men wan riot cos woman cheating don 2 much shikina

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  4. If your boyfriend cheats on you... Leave. Staying with him doesnt make you a sharp girl, instead it makes you a terribly insecure girl.

    A man dating/courting you should be at his best... he should think dream and breath you...not cheat on you. If he cheats on you when he is supposed to be petting and adoring you, what will he do when you guys are married and you are heavy and ugly?

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  5. Men don't cheat because its their nature, they cheat because they are weak. It takes a lot of strength not to be unfaithful...cheating is easy, so its easier for them to take the easy route, that is: CHEAT

    Most men are weak, and its the weak ones that cheat.

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  6. like seriusly evri guy has there own personality atached 2 themselves...even if some hv striking resemblance ....gurls shuldnt go all general...just like guys cnt say 'gurls are all evil'.... @iAmhairs...we follow back

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  7. All men cheat..........becos its wat dey know how to do best.......we just pray for a man who knows d diff btw good and bad

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  8. Lol, I'm curious to know how you'd teach your hubby a lesson iyou caught him cheating.

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