The whole process of chasing a woman has gone sour. This dating game has deteriorated so bad, that i wonder if anything can be done to salvage what's left.
With all the fancy Restaurants, Shopping malls, Games Center, Cinema etc, You would think some guys will be able to up there game, but for where, Some still carry this i don't care attitude around.
Back in the days guys really made an effort to purse a girl, Take her somewhere nice, Have decent conversations, Laugh with manners, Open the door when entering and leaving etc....
Then some of us girls didn't appreciate this things because we didn't know any better, Thinking its a normal thing any guy should do.
When you have been on many dates then you realize the difference in good and bad dates.
I went on a date recently and that's were all this is coming from. The guy saw it fit to take me to a pub, OK me i no complain, I tell myself say take am in good fate.
The 1st thing i noticed was him chewing gum, He didn't try to even hide it..He was chewing away like it was normal, I told myself say u don suffer, But shey the date is just starting let me give the guy a break..
Men the conversation was bloody zero, Made me drink beer(obviously that's like the only drink they sell in a pub and he didn't think maybe i don't drink beer), People laughing out loud everywhere(shey na pub).....It was a nightmare.
Unfortunately it gets to a point were you forget about being polite and you just wanna get out of there. Had to do that, wasn't sure why i had to sit through something so painful if the guy couldn't be bother to make an effort.
Guys seriously its not that hard to make an effort to impress a girl you like na haba......Somewhere quite will definitely help, So conversation can take place, Always know what she likes 1st before taking her on a date, Try and make sure you have fresh breath that way you won't have to chew gum..lol
In fact i think am going to have to take a guy on a date and show him how i think it should be done....
Merry Christmas all.....XXX
DD.
With all the fancy Restaurants, Shopping malls, Games Center, Cinema etc, You would think some guys will be able to up there game, but for where, Some still carry this i don't care attitude around.
Back in the days guys really made an effort to purse a girl, Take her somewhere nice, Have decent conversations, Laugh with manners, Open the door when entering and leaving etc....
Then some of us girls didn't appreciate this things because we didn't know any better, Thinking its a normal thing any guy should do.
When you have been on many dates then you realize the difference in good and bad dates.
I went on a date recently and that's were all this is coming from. The guy saw it fit to take me to a pub, OK me i no complain, I tell myself say take am in good fate.
The 1st thing i noticed was him chewing gum, He didn't try to even hide it..He was chewing away like it was normal, I told myself say u don suffer, But shey the date is just starting let me give the guy a break..
Men the conversation was bloody zero, Made me drink beer(obviously that's like the only drink they sell in a pub and he didn't think maybe i don't drink beer), People laughing out loud everywhere(shey na pub).....It was a nightmare.
Unfortunately it gets to a point were you forget about being polite and you just wanna get out of there. Had to do that, wasn't sure why i had to sit through something so painful if the guy couldn't be bother to make an effort.
Guys seriously its not that hard to make an effort to impress a girl you like na haba......Somewhere quite will definitely help, So conversation can take place, Always know what she likes 1st before taking her on a date, Try and make sure you have fresh breath that way you won't have to chew gum..lol
In fact i think am going to have to take a guy on a date and show him how i think it should be done....
Merry Christmas all.....XXX
DD.
Tell dem oo, ladies need 2be pampered.
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ReplyDeleteU defo met d wrong guy....ℓ☺ℓ
Well I for one feel you can have a good date anywhere pub or posh restaurant,it all depends on who ur going on that date with... Try going out on a date with me sometime *winks*
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