FRIENDS WITH THE EX

Why are we still friends with our ex?????? Some say its a sign of maturity, Some say oh who cares he/she isn't my enemy, Some say why not,we ended on a good ground, Some say even if He/She broke my heart i have moved on so yah we can be friends.

But is it really healthy to still be best of friends with your Ex, Especially the ones you know you still have feelings for. I mean like everyday talking, Chatting etc.

Especially when one of you has moved on and is doing so well in their new relationship...Inside you feel that should be us, Why didn't it work out, What went wrong..You torture yourself without even knowing, You then realize that you are always unhappy when ever you guys talk, But you force yourself to smile and act like your happy for him and also with your life..Now that's what i call unhealthy friendship with the Ex.....Please don't stay friends if your always feeling this way.

Now your still single, His still single and you guys are still ''acting'' like best of friends, You talk everyday, Still hangout and in your head your wondering why did we break up, Why can't we come back, Did He/She really love me, Does He/She still feel anything..Should i try and make a move, Should i try and win us back...You torture yourself again without knowing....Please don't stay friends with the Ex if you have this thoughts because they now see you as a brother or sister. Its unhealthy.

He/She is now married, But your still friends, Your always chatting and talking *thanks to social media*. The way you guys chat, You wonder where His/Her partner is and in your head you think OK maybe He/She still feels for me, But why didn't we get married, Wasn't i good enough, Does He/She have second thoughts and regret why we didn't end up together, Does He/She still think about me, Should i try and break his/her marriage.....Now that's you going crazy for still being friends with the Ex..And its sooo unhealthy.. Please look for new friends....

So many people might disagree with me and say its still Ok to be friends with your Ex, I agree with them if ;

I see any of my Ex as ewwwww, Did i really date this guy, What the hell did i find attractive, Was i so young that i was blindly in love....Now i can stay friends forever with this Ex...(LMAO)

If we had nothing in common, And always fighting and arguing and just getting on each others nerves, Yah i can try and stay friends with this Ex....hehehheee

If his mother hated me while we were dating and she's the cause of our break up..Sure i can stay friends with this Ex, Because i get a chance to torture and make fun of him for being a mummy's boy...

I could go on and on....But the truth is being friends with the Ex can make things awkward for us...We end up being different people around them, The thought of cheating on you present partner is high if your always around an Ex you still have feelings for, The thought of you becoming a bitter/jealous person is high, Blah Blah Blah.

But then If you can handle the whole situation, Fire down and keep that friendship Burning and lets hope no one gets burnt.....